#857 Cast out…

Our tendency, when things bother us, is to blame the other person or situation for getting it wrong and thus causing our suffering. We have all at one time or another, said these fabulous words..
“let’s get away for a while; “let’s go for a weekend away; I need to take a break for a while..”

We attempt sometimes to change the other person’s behavior or the situation into something we consider to be right, or at least something that will not bother us. We also think that going away on a holiday or just ‘getting away’ will fix all problems…Whether it a day/night or the ‘‘let’s just get away for a while’. – Unfortunately going away is a small fix and reality hits when you return back to normality again. 

When we cannot change the cause of our suffering, many of us continue to blame the other person or situation. This may provide us with some relief, at least for a while. But what happens when trying to change the other has failed and continuing to blame is not actually making us feel better either? 

Where do we go when we have run out of moves? Freedom from the whole blaming/fixing cycle, ironically, comes from moving our attention away from the other person/problem that is to blame/fix, and turning that attention onto ourselves…We all need to look at ourselves, and to try and make it work with the other person rather than cast out the blame.. 

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